Not that I ever thought anyone here would miss me, but I suppose you never know.

The past year has kept me busy. That and the fact the He(the X) found this blog and made an account using a name my boyfriend uses and invited me to be a friend. Obviously I checked with K first as it's unusual for him to blog. Who knows what the motives were behind this. Anyway, blog stalking is mild compared to the other things He got up to.
For instance, He took the foam bit off my mic and stuck sellotape over the hole and put the foam bit back on. This made my speech extremely muffled until I worked out what He had done. He also took to removing my hard drive and connecting it to his pc copied over alot of files. Some things went missing from my pc, which is password protected. I'm not sure what He was looking for, but I do believe they were deleted by accident. Probably while trying to copy and paste. Only thing that miffed me about this was two weeks of research that disappeared.

Anyway, yes we are still in the same house. Divorce absolute came through at the end of January. And He hasn't paid anything towards house/bills etc since he moved back into the house in the beginning of November last year.
He tried to get residency of our three youngest, but the judge did not think His reasons(apparently i'm in severe debt and i'm strange) were valid. I did however have to make the court a promise not to leave the area for the time being.
In court this month but judge said she couldn't make a decision until one of us had custody.
Basically I want to move to be with K and will take the two youngest and whoever else wants to go with me. I offered a 50/50 split after selling the house. But if I couldnt get permission from court to move i'd have to go for the house.
In court he offered me 60% if I left without the two little ones. Obviously my reply was a no.
Now i'm left with the option of going for custody.
On a good note He now has to pay half the bills and £200 a month for food for the kids. And He is saying that He won't protest to my leaving the area and I don't need to go for custody. (That's enough on the 'C' word as i'm not supposed to talk about it)

Looking for a house to rent in Loughborough, preferbly unfurnished with 4 bedrooms and a garden, but I can make do with 3 bedrooms. If anyone knows of anything in the LE11 area let me know :p
Also I want to buy a VW Camper but that will have to wait until He's bought me out.
I really can't wait to move out of here.